fearless chronicles: take control of your social media

fearless chronicles: take control of your social media

The other day I was hanging with a friend and their partner. We were discussing Tiktok and the type of content that pops up on our respective feeds. My friend’s partner commented that they wished they could see the type of content we see and sort of threw up their hands as if Tiktok had condemned them to the unfunny side of the app.

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fearless chronicles: is therapy all it's cracked up to be?

fearless chronicles: is therapy all it's cracked up to be?

As a self-proclaimed fearless woman, I thought for 2023, I could talk about the tools that have helped me become a better, more self-aware person. I should preface that I am not a perfect person and I do not strive to be. To me, becoming “THAT GIRL” as Tiktok likes to call any self-assured woman, is about finding peace in solitude, practicing mental and physical wellness, and building healthy relationships with others. It is not about reaching perfection or becoming someone without basic human emotions.

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Choosing People Who Choose You

Choosing People Who Choose You

I swear I’m not trying to flex when I say this, but my heart is a little too big. By that I mean, it’s too open and available. All it takes is one positive interaction for me to care about someone and to invest in their feelings towards me. The problem with keeping a “For Rent” sign on your heart is that you remain in a constant state of instability and unease.

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Boundaries & Why You Should Set Them

Boundaries & Why You Should Set Them

A couple of days ago, I decided to end contact with someone I was getting to know and was starting to care about. I made future plans with this person and discussed what a deep connection with them would look like. I got invested in knowing them and understanding them. I looked forward to speaking to them every day and hoped their contact would become a normal part of my daily routine.

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